The Art of Being Human
Understanding Early Imprints & Learning to Thrive
A Pre & Perinatal Personal Growth and Professional Development Course
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Overall Scope & Purpose
This professional training is designed for mental health therapists, craniosacral therapists, occupational and physical therapists, bodyworkers, birth professionals (midwives and doulas), somatic educators, and others who work with infants, children, parents, couples, or adults. It offers an in-depth exploration of the earliest foundations of human development and how our earliest experiences shape nervous system regulation, attachment, identity, health, and relational patterns throughout life.
Drawing from Pre- and Perinatal Psychology, Interpersonal Neurobiology, Attachment Theory, Somatic Therapy, Developmental Neuroscience, Embryology, and the work of pioneers such as Myrna Martin and Ray Castellino, the training offers a compassionate, embodied approach to understanding and supporting the healing of preconception, prenatal, birth, newborn, and early childhood imprints.
Throughout the program, participants deepen both their personal and professional capacities while developing practical skills they can immediately integrate into their work.
Participants will gain:
A deeper understanding of human development from preconception through early childhood
Support for cultivating secure self-attachment, embodied presence, and relational safety
Skills to recognize and work with early trauma, birth-related imprinting, attachment dynamics, and ancestral patterns
Embodied, somatic approaches that integrate nervous system regulation, bodywork, and emotional process
Practical tools to support infants, children, parents, couples, families, and adults toward greater resilience, health, and well-being
An experiential learning community that fosters personal growth alongside professional development
To learn more, watch the conversation below as Clara, Hiraman, and members of the teaching team share about the vision for The Art of Being Human, what the training offers, and answer questions from prospective participants.
What Is It Like to Be Part of The Art of Being Human?
Take a few minutes to hear directly from Clara, Hiraman, and members of the teaching team as they share about The Art of Being Human and their experiences within the training.
They speak about the heart of the work, what students can expect, and the ways this three year journey unfolds through learning, personal growth, relationship, and community.
Press play and get a glimpse into the experience of being part of The Art of Being Human.
Watch a Recorded Discovery Call
Unable to attend a live Discovery Call? Take a few minutes to hear Clara share the heart and vision behind The Art of Being Human, including an overview of the training, the philosophy that guides the work, and why our earliest experiences matter.
You'll also hear answers to common questions from prospective students and get a sense of how we teach and what it is like to be part of this learning journey.
Have questions after watching? Join us for an upcoming live Discovery Call or reach out to us directly.
Join a Discovery Call
We invite you to join us on Zoom to learn more about The Art of Being Human and meet Clara and the teaching team.
During each Discovery Call, Clara will share about the training, what participants can expect, and answer your questions in a relaxed, conversational setting.
All times are Pacific Time (Washington State).
September
Friday, September 11 • 7:00 PM
Saturday, September 12 • 5:30 PM
October
Friday, October 9 • 7:00 PM
Saturday, October 10 • 5:30 PM
November
Friday, November 6 • 7:00 PM
Saturday, November 14 • 5:30 PM
December
Friday, December 4 • 7:00 PM
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Voices from the Journey
“This training has transformed my professional and personal life. The thoughtful balance between deep relational and somatic practices, cognitive learning, and ample opportunity to practice therapeutic skills has provided a unique opportunity for the deepest transformations within my own being, security in connection, and ability to support others in their own journey.
Clara’s wisdom, capacity, skills, and knowledge around nervous system regulation and early attachment healing is immense. She embodies the principles she is teaching in her facilitation, leadership, and guidance, providing a role model for us all.
The level of support available in this training is unparalleled. I have learned so much from the TAs and greatly benefited from their embodied presence during small pod practices.
This training is a big commitment, and it is worth every drop of investment. My psychotherapy practice with young children and families, and with adults, has become immeasurably deeper and richer as a result of it.”
“There are some teachers who cross our paths who will walk with us forever. Hiraman and Clara are some of the most potent, compassionate, profoundly skilled, and deeply humble guides I have had the privilege to know.
One of their greatest gifts, as teachers, is their ability to demonstrate mastery and honor a student’s gifts with the same reverence, and always make space for inquiry and evolution.
In the classroom, I always felt like I was having a lovely conversation — a back and forth with ease, even in the face of complex subjects.
Beyond words, the environment they create is remarkable, and the field is notably held. They dedicate a large portion of their classes to experiential learning, whether through meditation, awareness exercises, hands-on practice, demonstration, or supervised clinics with clients.
This integrative approach allows for cognitive and embodied learning, a full immersion method. As lovely humans, both their individual and co-authored offerings are magical.”
“Participating in the Womb Surround with Clara and Hiraman was one of the most profound healing experiences of my life — it touched something in me that talk therapy never could.
Their sacred devotion, attunement, and loving presence created a field where my body finally felt what it missed at the beginning of life.
I left feeling more grounded, emotionally available, and whole — and my family is already experiencing the ripple effects.”
“Clara and Hiraman hold a special kind of space.
I met them at a time when all of my trauma patterns were up. Everyone around me, including myself, seemed focused on ‘what’s wrong with me.’ I had come across the concept of ‘basic goodness’ in my twenties, and it blew me away. But Clara and Hiraman took it to a whole new level by living it and embodying it.
They focused on the health in me. The goodness in me. They saw something in me that I was struggling to see for myself.
They became a safe space for me to simply be, and through being with them, I began to learn what safe space actually feels like. I learned how to create and hold that space for myself, and eventually, for others.
They have always been caring, deeply present, and honestly human themselves. They don’t pretend to have it all figured out. They show up as real people, with all of the messiness, humanity, humor, and heart that comes with being human.
They helped me find my way back to myself. They helped me save my own soul.”
Full Training Schedule
| Seminar | Dates | Topic / Theme |
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| Seminar 1 | May 5-9, 2027 | Foundations of Pre & Perinatal Awareness, Safety & Attachment |
| Seminar 2 | September 22-26, 2027 | Pre-Conception, Conception & Early Embryonic Potency and Imprinting |
| Seminar 3 | December 1-5, 2027 | The Vaginal Birth Journey — A Baby’s Perspective |
| Seminar 4 | February 23-27, 2028 | Medical, Chemical & Surgical Birth Interventions |
| Seminar 5 | May 10-14, 2028 | Life, Loss, Death & Ancestral / Double-Bind Imprinting |
| Seminar 6 | September 20-24, 2028 | Couples & Attachment Perspectives |
| Seminar 7 | November 15-19, 2028 | Infants and Their Families — Applied Hands-On Pre & Perinatal Skills |
| Seminar 8 | January 24-28, 2029 | Preschoolers and Family Sessions — Therapeutic Play |
| Seminar 9 | April 25-29, 2029 | Prenatal Loss, Artificial Reproductive Technologies & Twin Loss Dynamics |
| Seminar 10 | September 19-23, 2029 | Prematurity, NICU Experiences & Early Medical Trauma |
| Advanced Training | ||
| Seminar 11 | November 28-December 2, 2029 | Adoption, Foster Care, Surrogacy & Non-Birth Parent Attachment |
| Seminar 12 | January 23-27, 2030 | Working with Adults — Healing Pre & Perinatal Imprints |
| Seminar 13 | TBD | Integration, Clinical Case Review & Personal Birth Process Work |
Detailed Curriculum Content
Seminar 1 – Foundations of Pre & Perinatal Awareness, Safety & Attachment
Overview:
This seminar establishes the theoretical and experiential foundations of pre- and perinatal work. Participants explore how attachment begins before birth and is shaped by the earliest relational and physiological conditions of life.
Core themes include:
Attachment development from preconception through the first two years of life
Interpersonal neurobiology and nervous-system co-regulation
Embryology, early imprinting, and the formation of self-regulation
Attachment styles, adaptive patterns, and relational compensation strategies
Somatic attunement, presence, grounding, boundaries, and differentiation
Seminar 2 – Pre-Conception, Conception & Early Embryonic Imprinting
Overview:
This seminar explores the earliest beginnings of human life and how physical, emotional, relational, and ancestral factors present at conception shape the emerging nervous system.
Core themes include:
Preconception influences: epigenetics, ancestral patterns, parental readiness
Conception as an experiential and relational event
The baby’s experience of being wanted, welcomed, or conflicted
Early differentiation within the parental system
Somatic skills for tracking subtle cues, titration, and early developmental rhythms
Seminar 3 – The Vaginal Birth Journey: A Baby’s Perspective
Overview:
Birth is explored as a lived, embodied experience for the baby, shaping physiology, movement, nervous-system organization, and early relational patterns.
Core themes include:
Stages and dynamics of vaginal birth
Cranial molding, movement patterns, and reflex development
Somatic and psychological meaning of the birth passage
Therapeutic approaches for healing challenging birth experiences
Personal birth exploration (with choice and safety)
Seminar 4 – Medical, Chemical & Surgical Birth Interventions
Overview:
This seminar examines how medical interventions influence early imprinting and how these experiences may echo across development.
Core themes include:
Effects of induction, anesthesia, analgesics, cesarean birth, forceps, vacuum extraction
Prenatal or early-life surgeries and medical procedures
Impacts on structure, energy, autonomic regulation, and attachment
Somatic and body-based approaches for integration and healing
Recognizing intervention patterns in later posture, behavior, and relationships
Seminar 5 – Ancestral Imprinting, Loss & Double Binds
Overview:
Participants explore complex imprinting related to ancestral trauma, prenatal loss, and conflicting relational messages.
Core themes include:
Twin embryology and twin-loss dynamics
Miscarriage, stillbirth, and prenatal loss
Transgenerational trauma and family lineage patterns
Double binds and unresolved survival conflicts and how to resource and work effectively with them
Practitioner Resonance, transference and countertransference skill development
Somatic and systemic approaches to ancestral healing
Seminar 6 – Couples, Relationships & Attachment
Overview:
This seminar applies pre- and perinatal understanding to adult relationships and parenting systems. Working with couples in a body centered emotionally focused way
to support couples to include dynamics of early attachment and the relevance of non-verbal communication in relational dynamics and repair processes.
Core themes include:
Early attachment imprints in adult relationships
Somatic approaches to couples work and co-regulation
Differentiation, boundaries, and relational safety
Supporting conscious conception, pregnancy, and parenting
Seminar 7 – Infants and Their Families: Applied Hands-On Skills
Overview:
Participants learn to work directly with infants and families using gentle, attuned, body-centered approaches.
Core themes include:
Nervous-system regulation and co-regulation
Craniosacral and gentle touch techniques
Supporting parent–infant bonding and attunement
Ethical and practical considerations when working with families
Seminar 8 – Preschoolers & Family Sessions: Therapeutic Play
Overview:
This seminar focuses on early childhood (ages 2–6) and family-based therapeutic approaches.
Core themes include:
Developmental needs of preschool-aged children
Therapeutic play, movement, and symbolic expression
Family-system dynamics and attachment repair
Supporting regulation, boundaries, and emotional expression
Sand Tray for preconception, conception and birth history
Seminar 9 – Prenatal Loss, ART & Twin-Loss Dynamics
Overview:
A deeper exploration of loss and complex beginnings, including assisted reproductive technologies.
Core themes include:
ART, IVF, donor conception, and surrogacy implications
Psychological and somatic impacts of early loss
Identity, belonging, and attachment dynamics/challenges
Therapeutic approaches for grief and integration
Seminar 10 – Prematurity, NICU & Early Medical Trauma
Overview:
This seminar addresses the unique needs of premature and medically vulnerable infants and their families.
Core themes include:
Impact of prematurity and NICU environments
Nervous-system pacing and trust-building
Supporting parental regulation and bonding
Long-term developmental and therapeutic considerations
Completion of Foundation Training
Advanced Training (Seminars 11–13)
Seminar 11 – Adoption, Foster Care & Non-Birth Parent Attachment
Overview:
Explores attachment and identity formation within adoption, foster care, and non-birth parenting contexts.
Core themes include:
Early separation and attachment wounds
Identity, belonging, and grief
Somatic approaches to bonding and integration
Supporting adoptive and foster families
Seminar 12 – Working with Adults: Healing Pre & Perinatal Imprints
Overview:
Participants learn to adapt pre- and perinatal approaches for adult clients.
Core themes include:
Recognizing early imprinting in adult bodies and relationships
Somatic processing, titration, and integration
Ethical considerations and relational containment
Seminar 13 – Integration, Case Review & Personal Birth Process Work
Overview:
The final seminar focuses on integration, supervision, and professional application.
Core themes include:
Case presentations and group supervision
Personal integration of early-life history
Creative home projects and reflective practice
Preparing for clinical and professional application
Fees & Payment
The tuition for The Art of Being Human is on a sliding scale of US$1200-$1600 per seminar.
The fee then for the full foundational training runs on a sliding scale of US$12,000-$16,000. The advanced training costs an additional US$3600-$4800.
$500 deposit due December 5.
Some scholarships available. Please contact us for more information on this.
This training offers a lot of guided support for each individual, with teacher’s assistants for every small group.
This creates a container rich with opportunity for learning, growth, and healing.
Frequently Asked Questions
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The Art of Being Human is a balance of cognitive learning and experiential practice. Approximately one third to one half of the training time is devoted to cognitive material, including pre and perinatal psychology, attachment, nervous system development, relational safety, developmental processes, and related areas of study.
The remaining time is experiential, allowing students to explore and integrate the material through direct experience within small learning groups, or “pods.”
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A pod is a small learning group of approximately three students supported by one Teaching Assistant (TA). Your pod becomes an important part of your experience throughout the training, offering a consistent and supportive environment for learning, practicing, witnessing, and being witnessed.
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The pods are chosen anew for each seminar. We use a simple and meaningful process called “The Beads,” which Clara learned from Myrna Martin.
Each participant chooses a bead from a bag, and the beads are grouped to form the pods for that seminar. This means your pod changes from seminar to seminar, giving you the opportunity to learn, practice, and be in relationship with different members of the training community.
There can be something surprisingly valuable about not always knowing who you will be partnered with. For some, this may gently bring awareness to old patterns around belonging, attachment, uncertainty, or whether there is room for us in relationship. We are interested in creating just enough challenge to invite growth, without creating so much stress that the nervous system becomes overwhelmed.
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Within your pod, students take turns working with the material. One person has an opportunity to explore their experience while the others practice witnessing and holding a supportive, regulated space.
These roles rotate so that each student has the opportunity to experience being the person working with their material, as well as being a witness and learning how to hold space for another person.
This process allows students to learn not only through thinking and talking about the work, but through their own nervous systems and relationships with one another.
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In this work, “material” refers to patterns, sensations, emotions, impulses, relational responses, and implicit experiences that may live beneath conscious awareness.
Our earliest experiences, including experiences around conception, pregnancy, birth, and early relationship, can shape the developing nervous system and influence how we experience safety, connection, separation, belonging, and relationship later in life.
The intention of the training is not to search for or manufacture memories. Rather, through creating the conditions for safety, awareness, and healthy relationship, students have opportunities to become aware of patterns that may already be present within their nervous systems and to explore them in a supported way.
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Item descriptionA central principle of the training is that healing becomes possible when the conditions for safety and healthy relationship are present.
Students learn and practice principles of relational safety, secure attachment, co-regulation, presence, and healthy relationship. Within this learning container, we begin to notice how our nervous systems respond in relationship and how early patterns may continue to influence our lives.
The work is experiential because we are not simply learning these principles intellectually. We are practicing them with one another.
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Both are essential.
We provide a strong foundation of cognitive material and theoretical understanding, while also recognizing that some aspects of human development cannot be fully understood through intellectual learning alone.
The experiential work gives students an opportunity to explore what they are learning in their own bodies, nervous systems, and relationships. The two forms of learning continually inform one another.
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This is actually a beautiful example of how the work can begin before you ever enter a pod.
A concern about whether there is room for you can sometimes be connected to very early experiences of belonging, welcome, or uncertainty about whether there is space for you within the larger field.
In pre and perinatal work, we are interested in exploring these kinds of implicit patterns with curiosity rather than assuming a particular story or cause. The question itself can become an opportunity to notice what happens in your nervous system when you imagine taking your place, being welcomed, or wondering whether there is room for you.
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Yes. We believe it important for prospective students to have an opportunity to experience this kind of experiential learning before committing to the full training.
We plan to offer upcoming Womb Surrounds and other pre and perinatal learning opportunities where you can begin to become familiar with the work, experience the importance of taking turns, and get a sense of what it means to participate in this kind of learning container.
We especially encourage prospective students to attend a Womb Surround.
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Yes. Continuing education credit will be available for eligible mental health professionals.
More information about CE approval, eligible professions, and the number of credits available will be provided as those details are finalized.
Now Accepting Applications
The next cohort of The Art of Being Human begins in May 2027.
We invite those who feel called to this work to begin the application process and explore whether this training is the right next step for their personal and professional journey.
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